How to overcome his hatred of work
If you've had too idealistic view on the future work, the disappointment can be bitter. Dreams will always be brighter than reality, and this will have to accept. Start to learn how to focus on the positive things: the focus, for example, their attention on the clients (if you work with people), you really managed to make happy.
Also set yourself the rule of thumb: when family members ask you, how was your day, do not complain. Instead remember everything good that happened to you at work and tell me about it.
Monotonous work can really quickly become bored. Try to vary the usual routine with all means available. Start with the little things: for example, once a week, new decorate your workplace, hang fresh cards, calendars, change the screen saver on the computer.
Small move to more global changes. If your profile allows it, start to promote the idea of rotating staff to different work areas.
If things are so bad and nothing helps, find out — perhaps in the neighbouring departments there are open positions. Maybe you should think about the so-called horizontal career, when an employee develops a related field of work, constantly expanding the range of his powers and duties. It is possible that this will cause you concern.
It's time to remember that at work you get paid money not for tea parties and gatherings with colleagues. Focus on their direct job responsibilities. The more attention you will devote to work, the sooner you will start climbing up the career ladder. And the higher you climb, the level of communication will be interesting.
Don't forget that conversations you have family and friends. With them you have a lot of General topics and your lack of communication you will be able to fill in off hours. Your boss will definitely appreciate this approach to business.